It’s 2017 and Bruthas are still telling Sistas what to do, and some Sistas are actually taking the advice.


  1. In Kodak Black’s song, Tunnel Vision, he mentions that he wants a woman who will listen and cooperate. I do not know about you, but I am sick of black men wanting black women to shut up and cooperate with whatever they need.
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  3. In words of Chance the Rapper of one more Brutha tells me how to live my life, they are going to be some dread headed niggas in their lobby. Bruthas, Sistas were not placed here to take care of you, marry you, or make babies for you. If we want to have sex with a room full of women or men then that is our business. This notion that because a “promiscuous” (AND STOP USING PROMISCUOUS TO DESCRIBE US) woman always with a man, she lacks standards is completely false. Maybe she is just living life and dating who the hell she wants.
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  5. I am equally confused with Sistas who accept this role of being a “good” woman. You have to live your life for you, and as a Black woman you do not have to be a “good” woman. Black men telling Black women what to do and what should be important to them has been a consistent part of the Black community for centuries. Sistas, stop allowing Bruthas the comfortably to tell you what to do to get a man, or what a “good” woman is according to their standards that are mostly patriarchal and creations of white supremacy.
  6. #Tyrese writes a lengthy apology after he caught major backlash for his recent comments about women (swipe for more)

    #Tyrese writes a lengthy apology after he caught major backlash for his recent comments about women (swipe for more)

     

  7. 😩😩. Lupita some kind of regal man. He got the game all wrong.... When Black men speak like this especially public figures..😡😡. So problk thought posted something along the lines of you don't have to be mixed to be beautiful and Gilbert chimed in.

    😩😩. Lupita some kind of regal man. He got the game all wrong…. When Black men speak like this especially public figures..😡😡. So problk thought posted something along the lines of you don’t have to be mixed to be beautiful and Gilbert chimed in.

     

  8. So, we cannot have sex with multiple men, we can only have sex with men, listen to all of your problems, cooperate, be single and humble in order to receive a “Black” king? But the deeper issue here is why Bruthas think that it is their duty to tell Sistas how to live and breathe. In society there is this notion that the Black boy and Black man have to be protected at all cost, and while this is true the needs of Black girls go unfulfilled. Turning Black girls into “Strong” Black women who ignore their problems in order to take care of Black men, all while Black men expect them to shut up about their problems.
  9. White supremacy is strategic in the way it presents what being a “presentable” Black person is. A well groomed Black woman or man is acceptable, and being acceptable means not being a “promiscuous” woman, but being heterosexual, operating under capitalism, and overall conforming into whiteness. Black men such as Tyrese, Steve Harvey, Rev Run, and the other host of black men who KEEP telling Sistas what to do, are operating under White Supremacy because they have internalized the notions of blackness that are not actually based on black people, but have been constructed by white supremacy.
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